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Hooking up may be gratifying in the moment, yet the aftermath can be psychologically and emotionally damaging. Cassidy WangEditor-in-Chief. It was the summer before senior year. And now I was hooking up with him and everything was fine, because, in my mind, now I have someone again. They had sex four times in one week, and in the midst of it all, Sarah felt awful.
And I just felt so dirty afterwards. I just felt like some object that he had used for his own satisfaction. In the end, Sarah realized that she hooked up with him only to fill the void she had after her breakup. In popular culture, hookups have often been portrayed to happen at parties, where people may be under the influence. As someone who has seen many hookups at parties, Sarah believes that parties create an environment that promotes casual sex.Jordan Gray - Keep Her Captivated - The Art of Charm Podcast #268
Like Sarah, she had just broken up with her boyfriend and hooked up with a boy she had no feelings for. I needed something to get over him… I felt so much worse after, hooking up with this boy I barely knew. We were kind of using each other. Both Sarah and Thalia connected with their hookup partners through Snapchat first, before meeting to hook up.
My relationship had been deteriorating for two months before that.
It was the first time I felt whole again. It was the first time that I felt alive and I was genuinely happy— or so I thought.
Obviously, it was all just a lie. And so I needed more of it. I craved it because I craved feeling okay and he made me feel okay for a temporary amount of time. I think the same goes for relationships; no one really instills in our generation that putting in an effort with others and respecting others is important.
They just want a quick fix and then just leave and not have to deal with any of the consequences. Nick also believes that hookup culture can be a distraction from allowing oneself to be vulnerable. Beyond physical dangers, studies have been conducted to look at the emotional effects of hookup culture, including regret with respect to hookups and the negative feelings men and women may feel after casual sex.
According to the APA, in a large web-based study of 1, undergraduate students, In another recent study conducted on a sample of undergraduate students in Canada, 78 percent of women and 72 percent of men who had uncommitted sex reported a history of experiencing regret following such an encounter. Afterwards, both described feeling empty and taken advantage of. The idea of two people using each other to get over a relationship left them feeling worse than they were to begin with.
But it kept happening. I felt very lost. Men and women can just get used to a disrespect, a degrading thing. Hookup culture dominates college campuses. Through her past experience, Sarah has made the decision to not engage with this form of hookup culture in college, with the belief that there is an even greater potential for dangers in the college hookup culture environment.
Instead, Sarah hopes to be involved only in healthy relationships for the future, through which she can cultivate feelings and a meaningful relationship. After her brief experience with hookup culture, she discovered the value of commitment. When you both care about each other mutually, it allows yourself to have respect for you and your partner. Cassidy Wang has pursued journalism since her freshman year. As news editor, If you want a picture to show with your comment, go get a gravatar.
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